Bringing your partner home for the holidays is potentially the next step, especially if they have yet to meet the parents. But are they ready for the crazy uncle, screaming nieces and nephews, and overbearing grandparents? Here are some things to consider:
1. Evaluate: Are you ready?
The first part is simple: how long have you been together, and how much do they know about your family? If the answer is not long and they haven’t met most of them, maybe sit this out. It’s better to slowly introduce them to people before throwing them into the dragon’s den.
2. Gauge Your Family
What is your family’s style? If you know your parents are opening their arms and ready to hand a glass of wine at the entrance to them, maybe this is also not time yet. Without the label of serious on your relationship, your family might not take it seriously and be disrespectful.
3. Your Partner’s Preferences
Reminder: this is a two-person decision. If they have been on the fence about the entire situation, let them decide the outcome. Even if you know your family will love them, why make them uncomfortable for your entertainment?
5. At The EOD, Trust Your Gut
Even if all the stars align, you need to listen to yourself. If you aren’t ready, it’s not the time to bring them home. Enjoy the day apart and recuperate the next day. Overall, be thankful you made the right decision
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